Hi Steve,
Sorry I was writing very quickly without much time to construct my thoughts and words(rushed to work this morning) and would like to think more on what you said. I went back to try and clarify that understanding and gossip may be two different realities, I don’t think you go about talking illy of this person- just that something was not right and needed further understanding in yourself. If someone thinks they are right, We don’t need to invest so much energy trying to figure them out... why? in these moments I find myself rushing back to god in meditation and looking to detach and love. I have friends who tread different paths- it’s not for me to count what is owed or what is right or wrong, just that I can share in Love to the best of my ability with the personal belief that is a service and brings me closer to God. Real magic happens around this understanding...
Peace bro <3
I think that we occasionally get these insights like ‘ oh I see what this is about now. It’s all about you and does not include any of me. It’s like a rut you dug and find it easy to go down and want me to do the same without question. What’s easy for me should be the same for you. But we may have a different way of lookin at it. Like let’s try something different too and see where that goes. But the other person is like no i’m Used to my way and your causin too much work for me.... so you might just have to pause for reflection and see where u have really started off in a meaningful direction even though a close friend may not see it that way. We can still be very appreciative for the times our friends have and will go out of the way to help and assist us when we have been in need while recognizing the pot holes people get into and just feel comfortable staying in them.
