squirrel wrote:maybe you are in situation to bring sleeper to light, to show the way ?
yep, dearest squirrel...i find myself pondering this also.

so....this soul 'suffers' in the process. ? or maybe i stay in 'situation' and change my thinking, maybe i should not see this as suffering

hmmm...that is the question.
quite a 'quandry' this soul finds itself in...
damned if i do...damned if i dont...
either i stay and face this 'suffering'....or it is dissolved, this relationship, and then face all that stems from dissolution.
hey nova !

hang in there, looking thru spiritual history, did not all great souls endure " suffering " ? for their cause ?
spiritual path is not an easy one, for most people
not easy helping others " see the light " , yet if we all gave up, where would this world be ? in total darkness !!
perhaps it is necessary to put others first, look at situation from different angle, " how may I be of service ?"
"how can I bring even one lost soul to the light ? "
surround yourself and sleeper with rays of pink light
let love enter the situation
this
soul love that you are always chattering on about
unconditional soul love sent out to sleeper, expecting nothing in return