they can not go on living like they are and you can not either
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that is the point i made.
then all the more they , the sleepers, drop their anchors. anchor ahoy matey ! they say.
all the more grounds to stay together and seek freudian help to rectify relationship...

it is amazing...the 'tricks' sleepers will pull....when they find themselves 'desperate'.
Moose...love you too
<3<3<3squirrel wrote:maybe you are in situation to bring sleeper to light, to show the way ?
yep, dearest squirrel...i find myself pondering this also.

so....this soul 'suffers' in the process. ? or maybe i stay in 'situation' and change my thinking, maybe i should not see this as suffering

hmmm...that is the question.
quite a 'quandry' this soul finds itself in...
damned if i do...damned if i dont...
either i stay and face this 'suffering'....or it is dissolved, this relationship, and then face all that stems from dissolution.
(((Hugs)))