The Vibe

[Jitendra Hydonus]

It's a strange thing to me how we can be so caught up in the magic and mystery of the moment with someone and then at a later time that magic seems no longer there. The relationship has a whole different vibe. This works out in romantic as well as relationships that are for friendship. Yet it seems to have more impact in romantic relationships since they can be so dreamy in nature and later we may 'wake up' from the dream to find two people in different places. Although I have also see friendships loose the spark they once had. It takes the effort of both parties to overcome difference presented by circumstances and to find common ground when challenges occur. Quite often there can be a pattern towards different desires that can no longer be satisfied in friendships or values that are insurmountable.

[guest88]

Hi Steve. I don't think most of us know how to rationalize our emotions or consider our upbringing and conditioning when the slightest interest is reciprocated... We often end up fantasizing and placing our own idea's or expectations on another when it's both parties who go into a relationship hoping to fulfill separate realities. Verbal communication is a great way to define "The Vibe" and sometimes alters the course between the parties once it's realized expectations may not be met... On the flip side sometimes "The Vibe" is exactly that, a Harmonious reality...

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