Are we bound by the zodiac- can we break the expectations of our sign?
For example... When a girl ask, "what's your sign?" and in her research finds you're compatible or not compatible... Something about that seems absurd to me.
While it is possible to find compatibility between people it is not so simple as to do it by 'sign' alone. What is meant by 'sign' is a misnomer because it can only tell us one thing; that is whether the Sun signs are compatible. There is much more to comparing people by using Sun signs alone. We must look at all the planets and important areas of two charts to see the dynamics and compatibilities or liabilities they may share.
Two people may not be compatible by Sun signs but may share compatibility in every other way or they may be compatible by Sun sign and show no compatibility in the rest of the astrological charts.