Some People

[Jitendra Hydonus]

There are some people who do not care about our feelings or our take on life. They have excluded us from  their lives. What options do we have? Simple; they're not worth it. You probably have friends that care about u.  Don't waste your time on uncaring people. Ignore them. They are creating horrible karma for themselves.

[guest88]

Hi Steve. I disagree with your last comment. I don't think by ignoring others necessarily means bad karma is the immediate "consequence". Not everyone gets along with each other. Some people don't vibe well together. That's normal. Perhaps the reason for these hot and cold relationships is because of something unresolved in BOTH parties. We're no saints. You're right. If someone's ignoring you then you shouldn't create more energy in trying to get their attention. That's where I see suffering. Instead accept the circumstance and let go. As hard as that might be, I'd see it as a cleansing from a bad situation. If you can move on then your thoughts wouldn't be focused on the other persons karma.

[Jitendra Hydonus]

There is a difference between people who do not 'vibe' with us and people who do not care for us. Caring is a universal quality required for all spiritual development.Where as vibes between people are a karmic situation.

I do not see any sense in trying to get attention from someone if it is not reciprocated. However hot/cold situations as you have described are not as simple as you make them. The reason being; it is difficult to know the intentions of someone who is hot/cold about you. This is like passive/aggressive personality disorder. These people can be extremely frustrating because they do not know what they want themselves. It would b better to voice this rather than keeping others uncertain about intentions.

No; most of us r not saints.... yet. However we are not devils either. We are becoming more and more aware and recognizing our mistakes and correcting them as we go. If we do not we are foolish. Creating the same errors over and over seeing the same lessons over and over in our lives. We are spiritual seekers and as spiritual seekers our efforts r hallow and superficial if we do not care about others.