Some are just more attached than others.
Tell me SI is it attachment or is it that some people just never forget what they meant when they said 'i love you'. Some people know when they have recognized the soul in another. Some people refuse to dwell on the negativity in others. Some people see a purpose in all life's unfolding dramas. Some people accept that things have changed but will never relinquish the love they have had and keep it as a treasured memory they have shared with another soul. Though people and times change and we must all adjust to changing times and conditions; it is possible to still have that love for others and remain true and kind to that memory however lost and gone it may appear. Our human concept and understanding of love is constantly growing and expanding. We are a witness of love in all our encounters and if we remain loving and forgiving about ourselves and others and are receptive to changing our attitudes about love we can can actually be love ourselves.
It is what it is for different spirits.