Message #27031

[Jitendra Hydonus]

As you know i dealt with a similar situation. Although i became more understanding with time. We can be grateful that we have developed a level of kindness and do not choose to treat others like they may treat us. Perhaps that is part of the test my friend....to return kindness where we have been mistreated. This marks an evolutionary leap in spirituality. Consequently our environment and friends and lovers will also improve. More and more i see kinder and more evolved types in my life. This is because i chose to ignore the transgressions of others and not be foolish and continue to let them harm me but prepared to give love and kindness no matter what the circumstances. Quite often when people who have loved us give us the silent treatment there are great insecurities in them and they are extremely frustrated with themselves.