Message #40015

[guest587]

I am learning that when it happens, it's better to recognize the unspoken reality than to try and coerce a desired one. I am so grateful you bumped this thread. Please know what I am saying may not be relatable to your revelations- but that at a later time, it may make sense. There are three sides to every story?

Lately I've had to distance myself from a friend. I called him and left a message, explaining that I do not want to hang out or get together at this time. I told him I wish him well. I did this because I understand the silent treatment is not something I'v enjoyed- so if I am choosing to end a relationship, I will at least try to verbalize. I also realize though, sometimes that doesn't always work. And people want to argue about who'se view is the correct one. Rather than get into who is right or wrong, it's better to walk away- but to maintain the course with our own ideals. Practicing good charity and kindness.

I left this friendship because I felt like there was years of toxic behavior that did not align with my personal beliefs. I saw an alpha personality dominating my own and it was not something I enjoyed. I wish my friend peace, and I wish to live my life free from his influence.