Message #20262

[Jitendra Hydonus]

i just think that we need to work within practical parameters. After all most of us live quite a distance from each other and may never meet each other in person. People have to feel a strong pull to want to meet personally and if one person does not feel that same pull then we back off and are at square one--which isn't that bad after all. i mean we r fortunate to have this kind of connection.

One of the perplexing phenomena of relationships of all sorts is that interests in people do not always match. What i mean by this is that i have found that people interested in me---i may not take such a strong interest in them--- but later i might change and feel different. i have also found this to work the other way around. Someone i may initially have an interest for ... later that strong interest dissipates. When two people continue to have similar interests in each other either as friends or lovers then you really have some dynamite going there.

i can tell u that my interest in Amma and Paramahansa Yogananda have been dynamite because the interest was returned and continues to be! PROBLEM IS .....RECOGNIZING IT AT ALL TIMES.... NOT JUST SOMETIMES.