Yes Anne but often we do not see that others care for us by maintaining a distance so that we do not enable our friends and people to go on doing harm to themselves and others. We can be seen as giving silent consent to a unworthy causes if we do not take a stand. Sometimes we get a very clear picture of our friends spinning their wheels in tired worn out situations. It is better at this time to help them by leaving them alone rather then spinning wheels with them. Human love and the Gurus love can go undetected when we keep set in a path that does not befit our spiritual aspirations.
Jitendra
some view a glass as half full....some view a glass as half empty. all depends on the viewer, where the consciousness lies...lays.
to me...everything....every action....has Reason....all beneficial,,,whether we know it or not.
no right....no wrong. it is...just the way it is.
some may view my life as suffering....others may not. some view life negatively...others may view positively...
soul enters body in order to will.....learn to use the will in order to get back to god again....
everything,,,,every action.....leads to god. therefore....everything is beneficial....
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