Message #5795

[flying squirrel]

they can not go on living like they are and you can not either

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that is the point i made. 

then all the more they , the sleepers, drop their anchors.  anchor ahoy matey ! they say.

all the more grounds to stay together and seek freudian help to rectify relationship...

it is amazing...the 'tricks' sleepers will pull....when they find themselves 'desperate'.

Moose...love you too <3<3<3

squirrel wrote:

maybe you are in situation to bring sleeper to light, to show the way ?

yep, dearest squirrel...i find myself pondering this also.     so....this soul 'suffers' in the process.  ?  or maybe i stay in 'situation' and change my thinking, maybe i should not see this as suffering 

hmmm...that is the question.

quite a 'quandry' this soul finds itself in...

damned if i do...damned if i dont...

either i stay and face this 'suffering'....or it is dissolved, this relationship, and then face all that stems from dissolution.

i think that it is very difficult to comment when we do not know the view of the other party involved. Are you comfortable with being 'anchored down'? If not perhaps there is a reason why not. Resolutions to such problems sometimes take years and often outsiders who try to help get caught in the crossfire. Jai Guru Anne Keep asking for guidance on such matters...

Steve Hydonus

Amen brother Steve !     Perhaps we should ALL quit giving suggestions or comments in regards to this situation

wondering if forum is appropriate place for such private matters, if one is not looking for advice, comments from others ?

..........back on the branch.....in silent observation of current drama

apologies nova !

Peace