i look for continuity in relationships today. Relationships where people can look at the past for what it was and forgive transgressions or seeming transgressions. People who want to go it for the long hall from life to life until we get this thing right and move on merging together in the arms of the infinite.
Hey Steve! Thanx for your thoughts
Deep thought on that last sentence above, the long hall ... life to life ...move on merging together
Ego has a mind of its own
Much talk about " living in the now " - today's mantra
sometimes need to let the memories rest
being loving in the memories doesn't always mean continuity in friendship
perhaps memories are different between the two people, different views ?
enhanced sometimes by thoughts of what one or the other wished it would have been, but it was not ?
i think that even with friends and lovers that have gone; there is still something very special about them and the love they gave. i have found though that many people do not feel the same about the continuity issue. There life being different, there seems no more room for the old sentimentalities. But to me this is ignoring the fact that we are separated only for a time we will all unite again someday. It would be best to think we did the best we could to give love to all we have loved for eternity.
Agree with you on the," very special about them and the love they gave " part
this thought " we are separated only for a time we will all unite again someday " great thought
but with everyone up there reuniting, won't it be crowded ?
