Control in Relationships

[Jitendra Hydonus]

I have seen quite a bit of control in relationships in my life and people who attempt to control the direction and their direction as well in relationships. As in any observations we make in those who come into our life, we are also challenged to see just how much we ourselves manifest the control we witness that others try to exert.

Although most of us have blind spots. We are all challenged to let others around us act freely as God let’s us act according to free will and our own volition.

More and more I am recognizing that to have more is a very difficult spiritual journey because with ownership comes a certain amount of control and with power over others also comes the temptation to exert control over them. With this ‘power’ comes the illusion that some how it is destiny to control others and their movement, ideas and monetary flow.