Just sharing aloud as you have above.
I find sexuality a gift when responsibly expressed with an equal partner- that these bodies are gifts from our host planet,
Nature and these bodies are constantly teaching us.
Mother Earth is so good to us. Greed is the underlying factor behind many of our perversions.
I do not propose to have answers for others but rather am looking for answers for myself and so I am giving them here and working with those values and current circumstances to find solutions.
You have made several seeming speculations Eric. Your response brings up more questions; When do we ‘graduate’ from our lessons? And, when and who decides that? And who has the right to determine so called ‘perversions? Who is designated the arbitrator? And what is our host planet and who has determined that? Who has invited us as guests, being what you call our ‘host’? What is an ‘equal’ partner?
Often if we do not evaluate our answers we do not know if we are both talking about the same thing. We may even need to understand our questions better to find proper solutions and answers.