Message #43281

[guest587]

Steve,

You are asking me a lot of questions, but it sounds like you have an idea about them already.

What I can say is, in the event someone recalls something differently from you- whatever that person is going through, it is real- even if it is not based in, "reality." We make it real. I have experienced that with others no doubt.

I have been blamed for things that haven't taken place and I have blamed others for similar. I would rather learn to take self accountability and grow. That blame was real in the sense that I have a unique personality with likes, dislikes, insecurities, and archaic or jaded attitudes. Sometimes we aren't aware how much we carry that into a new relationship. 

SELF is the only reality but we don't understand SELF as it is taught by the Masters- or "Self-Realized" individuals. We are learning, by the grace of God... The ultimate teacher here is Life Experience. And in this discovery, we learn. That is *REALITY* and so it is both true... We don't see others for who are what they are- we see what we want, we see what we need.

I have not found any exception to the above statement. I am not excluded from it, and neither are you.

A separate train of thought- but related... What is Maya? And at the same time, what is real that is born from Maya?