Message #8486

[Jitendra Hydonus]

flying squirrel wrote:
Thanx also for the reply on the multiple posts combination....

whoaaaa cowboy ! I didn't say Annie was a very special ' lovie' ... I didn't put it that way at all and I don't feel that way either.  Those were her words in talking about you !! 

fyi......i refer to ones whom i care about as 'lovies'.....IF u notice i also included my grandfather, friends, yoga partner and my guru....just to name a few.   do u understand now ?

......when i said , a while back, that there is someone i care for very much that lives continents away..that is exactly what i meant....plural....continents(S)....not the same continent....and i do not appreciate ur reply to that post.....stating that this person lives on the same continent as i do....and then assuming it was jitendra i was speaking of. 

another thing i will clarify.......love.  just because someone loves another does not mean it involves sex or sexual feelings ( obviously ).

If you have found someone on another continent to feel special about i am happy for u.

Just because someone has sexual feelings about someone else does not mean they are in love either. Yet i think it is safe to say that feeling physical feelings towards others, at a stage of evolution that finds us at a forum as this one, is usually combined with spiritual qualities we see in others; . i also ask myself; What is wrong with having physical feelings towards others? Are we not human and working out our desires on the material plane? Should we not be honest about ourselves when we acknowledge this despite the illusions/delusions associated with our desires and their manifestations in our personal realities?

Yes we can love people many different ways. i do love others here on the forum including you Annie; whether you were referring to me or not. There are also many ways to love others. Many times circumstances make it very difficult and are not appropriate for finding how we love others. To have romantic love for another person is rather a redundant oxymoron if you have not even met them personally. Yet we still can have fantasies about others even though we have not met them. It is also cruel to profess love or imply it, and then take it away, when it is not reciprocated in a manner that is acceptable to our personal whims and ego. In this way i think it is important to understand the dynamics of communicating with others.

Hopefully we all have come to this forum to understand each other and not to accuse each other and place blame on one another. Sometimes when we have seen something in someone else we do not always express it in a loving way. Yet we still might be wanting to help them. This has been my experience and i have been trying to improve myself in this regard.

There is another factor here to acknowledge. We no doubt have loved others in different ways in different incarnations. The role we have chosen,this time around (for ourselves), may not be compatible with expressing our selves towards others in the same manner as we did in a previous episode in the cosmic drama. We also do change and though we still love others from the past, they look at us, and we look at them differently in this masquerade. It is wonderful to meet again. But often challenging to understand our inter relationships this time around.

There are many ways to love as i have quoted you above. We are exploring some of these ways in our soul searching. Isn't it possible that this is a learning process, a beautiful experience, yet challenging experience for us all?

Jitendra