Message #33011

[guest88]

It may come to a point where you realize there's nothing you can do, that said person will have to want to help themselves before anything can be done. And it dawns upon us that there isn't much we control outside ourselves. In your separation, much healing can transpire. Relationships, like Nature, have a beginning and an end- it's the experience... That's the eternal part. "Forgiving." Thank you "for giving" me this experience. I recently witnessed a dear friend meet a minor resistance in me, and he projected his thoughts by reacting very negatively to my response. My friend is still my friend. And in our separation I am comforted that he is on the right path. Similarly, I have another friend who is in the phase, "dark night" of the soul. His family cut him off. I am worried his abuse with him self might mean losing his life. There isn't anything I can do. It's at the point where he has to help himself, and all I can do is keep him in Loving energy.