
When you find yourself trying to force something on someone, you might be in the wrong place.
When it comes to personal attractions and relationships, sometimes we are blinded by our own desires- suppressing a very large or exaggerating a very tiny aspect of ourselves in order to capture our beauties attention.
NOW, when intentions are good and it doesn't work out- you can walk away smiling. Whether that's in your personal affairs, work or anywhere in life.
As Swami V says, do your best and forget the rest.
Some other things to consider...
You can't expect people to keep at your pace. Whether you're the one moving too fast or too slow, it is absurd to demand(conscious or unconscious) someone else walk with you. There will be others who are in harmony with your current life situation, and there will be those who aren't.
Make peace wherever you are. <3