Message #42316

[Jitendra Hydonus]

In no way do I believe I’m right nor negate your friend’s experiences. My assessments are subject to review, all I can do is attempt to understand my life in the context of various factors of the lives of others. We all make mistakes and attempt to understand them. That is part of learning and why there are erasers on the end of pencils and a modify button here so we can change our mistakes even on this site. I agree and have found through my experiences with De Ja Vu that we do plan out our lives to a great degree. I find that indeed that the people I’ve met do have quite different perspective of their life events.

Maybe our life events are ‘special events reserved between us and God’ Eric. I think it also possible to learn and gain wisdom by the events we see played out in the lives of others. It seems to me unlikely that we never make judgments of the events we witness around us. Because we often have to make decisions about the course of our own personal lives. Those decisions are based on the choices and judgments we have made in regard to those events and people we encounter. Being judgmental about others is one thing, making judgments for ourselves because of what we have seen others do can be quite different. So I do agree that my judgement are for making directions in my life, not the lives of others. I am unable to see where the long term effects of the actions of others will lead them, although I definitely have to assess where the long term decisions and choices of my own life will lead me.