Do you see anything more specific, as to why her and I aren't right for each other?
A psychic told me she would cheat on me or leave me for someone with more money if she became my partner... which might be true, since this seems to be one of her patterns...
She has major psychological issues, she's spent years healing... she said she's 90-95% healed... but that last 5-10% seems to control her with fear... which guides her to be with a partner with a lot of money, who can support her therapists and self-healing...
I love her and hope she does fully heal and get all the things she wants... Even though I know what she had with me is much greater... with much more potential...
To understand others in relationships it is essential we first understand ourselves. You may find this information helpful below. This life is a schoolhouse for the spiritually retarded. That’s why you and I are attending this class together. But think of it this way; don’t you often get sentimental about your school days back when you were a kid or teen?
Mercury square or opposition Pluto
You are so perceptive and you dig so deep for answers that you can be your own worst enemy. As a result, you might find ulterior motives or dark intent where there is none, and your suspicious, provocative attitude can cause some problems in your personal life, particularly if it reaches the level of paranoia. Not many people enjoy being second-guessed all the time, yet that is something that you are inclined to do, and a tendency that should be kept in check in your dealings with others. However, your determination to get to the bottom of any matter, to rip away falsehoods and expose true motives, can be used for good if you employ it in your work, for example, which can involve investigation and research, psychology, or revealing and perhaps dark creative arts. You can be insatiably curious about all that is hidden, taboo, repressed, or secret. You have a great love of debate, but should be careful that you don’t overpower others with your strong opinions, attempting to “convert” them to your frame of mind, or treat regular debate or exchanges of opinion as battlegrounds. Many of you do learn to harness your intense mental energy and apply it productively. You are capable of very hard work and effort.
https://cafeastrology.com/natal/mercuryplutoaspects.html
