Yes! I know = ) And that's why I asked, not expecting an answer- "Isn't that how life goes?" The response above is saying the same thing. May our unique, limited, and sometimes flawed views serve us well!
I do hope though, not to assume regarding others and be able to develop deeper understanding... Which actually means not always placing the self as the main-character. I had a 1111 moment again just yesterday. An impromptu fellowship with a customer and the manager. We were all three experiencing a funk in our energy over the last couple of days. We each had a chance to share our upsets, and each had a chance to share our wisdom in the process. The one man was explaining to me he gets discouraged when people offer unsolicited advice and don't really understand. Like his friend who lost his daughter. A Child. And a general response from people would be, "she's in a better place." and "keep on the bright side of life." These quips, be it unconscious behavior, aren't helping- according to the man who lost his only child. The real help he found was when people would instead offer their time- saying, "I'm so sorry for your loss. Let me know if there's anything you need, or that I can do to help you at this time."
It was very helpful for me to delete my post, because I had spent so much time thinking about it- I was not happy in the energy. If you are asking me what happened, I can tell you that basically I was attacked by a mentally unstable person. He was staring me down at the coffee shop. I was fortunate things did not escalate to physical violence despite him being so close and on the verge to doing so. I prayed for him and prayed for Understanding. I believe this man to have suffered trauma, and to have been made isolated by things like being near homeless, antidepressants, and polarizing content online. The world in his head was projecting a very off-putting, aggressive vibration. So much so that mere eye contact would be enough to trigger him into a rage. Anger is a type of fear. And that's what happened inside this family yogurt/coffee shop. I tried to remove myself form the situation but was approached by him once more outside.
Maybe God uses us in ways we can't understand. But the encounter at the time was very discouraging, and really brought me into a low vibration for the remainder of the day and next day. Though I was granted some insight into this man(and others) situation, I also had to learn how to get back on my feet and keep practicing the things I believe in. The reason I was discouraged is because it's not the first time I've encountered this behavior and not the first time I have had my life threatened for simply existing. I believe you have experienced similar, if that's why you would want to talk about it, and offer your wisdom, I am happy to read what you have to offer.
Deleting it was my way of not lingering in the energy- sometimes it's best not to post right away but to take my time and really think about my actions. I would say this discussion to me feels all the better... And deleting my post at the time, was the first step to sending myself back to my favorite coffee shop. Which is why I viewed running into an old friend as a type of wink from God that all is well. I'm not going to live in fear, and I'm not going to be made hateful because of discouraging behavior.
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I meant to include, 1111 can be a synchronicity. It's an easy way for a higher intelligence, not bound to material 3D linear experience, to communicate with us. It would seem this intelligence is able to acknowledge our internal world, using the world around us. Once you become keen on picking up the 1111 signal, you start to notice the same type of experience with other things- license plates, select phrases, and also... With people!
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It's magical.
Actually you and I come from a very different place brother; “I’m sorry to hear you lost your daughter “ is definitely not a helpful response for me! Since my daughter may be in a much better place, as you have mentioned, then I am! People morn for themselves not others, in such situations. I also have much different idea about your experience since my thoughts are completely different regarding your situation you encountered. But lastly, you expressed no need for unsolicited advice. Considering your attitude I have nothing to say; it is best to leave people alone to solve their own seemingly sad situations, who have the attitude that others cannot help with attitudes that do not reflect a need to hear a certain type of consolation.Sorry if I am to harsh - which I may be - but people need to find better solutions for themselves when faced with discouraging situations. And often help is available but not appreciated.
