Well, if so, even though outwardly spiritual, they have a long way to go yet...
We have seen people like that even here on the forum. I am not sure what to make of it. One thing I have noticed;
Circumstances and other people can bring such behaviors to light. When desire rises to the surface and is thwarted or jealousy sprouts with it often comes antipathy.
It has made sense to me why such people have left my life: I do not feel or experience antipathy towards them. I wonder if you also have this experience mccoy. I attribute it to long years of meditation. I have no enemies. There are times we must fight evil. But I have no enemies.