... We can often think that we have done something 'wrong' if someone does not communicate with us that we have known. Especially if they cut us off. However this is not always the case. Sometimes people are just going thru things that just do not include us or they have found someone else or something else to replace us temporarily or even permanently. .....
thanks steve for the drop in and the wisdom...
sometimes its hard to let go once you've realized you are no longer a part of a persons life.
It becomes easier and easier as we begin to understand the unkindness of some people. In reality we r blessed to have such people taken out of our lives. Where there is kindness u will see communication at some level. Where there is not the true colors of others finally fly there sad 😢
flags. It takes some years to often find this. But if someone refuses to communicate u r being spared their meanness. For those who practice kindness there r people who r kind. Let cruelty go. Let the abuse of using the silent treatment go. It is evident that some really do practice meanness. It is a mental illness. When people close forever all forms of communication; This shows extreme character deficiencies.
while seeing amma she made the comment that those who give others the silent treatment and stick their nose up in the air actually have a form of mental illness. sometimes we wonder about ourselves when this treatment is given to us however we should realize that people do practice meaness and this kind of behavior is a result of beimg so wrapped up in ourselves and our ego that there is only one view; our own.
Jitendra
