Thinking of you! Recently i found a name that is some what like yours but perhaps more appropriate to many other spiritual lessons: Live and Let Go
I've been learning that one, seemingly without end. Hence, my own username.
Sometimes we have no choice but to distance ourselves from others we have been close to. This is because of attachment. We must allow a space for others to come in. When we are engrossed in our relationships we have had with those we have been with in the past we can not allow the present to take place. The present holds the key to our happiness. It allows us the spontaneity to accept its gifts and not to dwell in the past. This requires surrender. Surrender to the present moment and often a realization that we actually have left the past behind. That is because it no longer suits who we are. What we observe before us and around us is what we need for our present unfoldment. This awareness comes thru the wisdom your post inspires.