Hello Donna i think relationships often have that effect on most of us. They are a catalyst for change. It seems like honesty is the best policy. Often if we do not lay things out until they happen we can get sudden unwanted surprises. But if someone explains what a relationship means to them and then the other person does not see the importance of your values or has completely different values then you realize it will be difficult to continue on or that it just will not work or at the very least you are forewarned.
Values are very different for different people. i am not here to say what is right and wrong. i do think that from a spiritual point of view it would be quite difficult to have sex with different people at different times and still have spiritual development.... not to speak of the possibility of sexual transmitted diseases. i mean it is difficult enough just transforming our own desires... let alone creating all kinds of new ones. i also have found people having much different views at different points in their lives.
i play music at many coffee houses and breweries (among other places) so we have a common interest! Being lost in this world is the problem with most people and the ones that 'think' they are found are even more disastrous. But those who are admittedly lost and looking to find some answers are my kind of people!
Welcome to this little off the road coffee house.
