That is because you have a recalcitrant streak that defies being pegged. It is simply the need to make decisions with 'free will' being a priority. The need to be free of outside control factors; An independent disposition. There is nothing 'bad' about that. It is just good to recognize it. Because at some point you may defer help because of such a rugged individualistic temperment.
Gee you sound a bit ticked. Well actually the point I was trying to make is, it is a huge responsibility to impart information that can affect the very core, especially when they can be impressionable. I'm not saying anyone is that way, but it is a responsibility and risky, IMO.
BTW the title of the thread is a bit over the top
