Message #19214

[mccoy]

SI, it is most likely that, in this internet era, square pegs can find square holes and fit into them nicely.

I too had a square-peg issue in my youth. What I did, simply, is work a little on the outside angles of my pegs, without touching the substance. I adapted myself to some social requirements without having to change the peg. It is possible, and in the internet era you find all manner of people who are pegs similar to yours. This forum is an example LOL.

As far as the SRF center goes, it really looks like you may have an inherent aversion to social contacts, originated maybe from former past lives of seclusion. Like Steve hints, though, you may benefit from group meditation without being directly involved in socialization, or just making a small effort with some basic display of politeness. Not hypocritically, just as a social duty.