Message #16742

[Jitendra Hydonus]

Often we are learning together and comparing notes. mccoy.. Your reflections bring me back to times i have also felt women were hyper - sensitive and acted out situations that were a result of their own ego  not necessarily warranting the responses they gave which apparently came from something i did or said. I think the problem for us as men is that even if we are rite; If a woman is convinced otherwise,  we still run the risk of losing them permanantly or offending them. So in this sense our antenna always needs to be in tune with a channel and frequency that is far from reason and logic. Perhaps the answer lies somewhere in the middle - being receptive  and listening yet recognizing that like us - they too are learning about the world we live in. We're in this thing together separated by sex for some kind of balancing act that is part of the design the Lord created for us in these bodies with different gender lessons.  I've always tried keeping this in mind that there is little to gain  by being right when someone else has felt wronged.