Message #16717

[mccoy]

I agree with Steve, relationships among human beings are often difficult because they are tainted bt the inherent proclivities and limitations of each individual being, so often it's best to speak up and make things clear, each one has his or her own subjective understanding of things..

One example I personally observed, don't know if it is 100% in topic but sure caused me some wonderment.
Women. Sometimes they say they are sensitive, very sensitive. To what people say, to the behaviours of Others, sometimes maybe meaning that if people are rude or do not understand them they feel it to much.
At the same time, they often behave in a very insensitive way toward Others, not even realizing that they are acting in the same unsensitive way  they complain Others are doing towards them.
One striking axample  of this was my ex fiancee.
Another striking example was a woman in the other forum. I was tempted to write her, but I restrained. May be I should have done it. Maybe better avoided. don't know, women can be pretty complicated beings, saying one thing, thinking another and acting still another way. And all that often without malice. Lol.