+1 on the mutual attraction, I would not be able (and in fact I've never been able) to be intimate without some mutual attraction based on common interests and mental backgrounds. And also some aesthetic attraction, I confess it. Not so easy to find all these together, very easy to remain celibate for long periods.
I always thought of aesthetics as the appreciation of art, music and dance. Swami tried to make such a commotion about it so I thought I would look it up. I suppose the second meaning and 'C' is more broader. We all see beauty in our own way. Perhaps much of it is because of past conditioning. Yes; I have always enjoyed going to art galleries, listening to good music and watching dancers. It is always nice to see what a person can do to keep in shape. Being in physical shape is aesthetic also. i'm with you on all of the above McCoy. Art and beauty take life to a higher level of appreciation. Maybe not the highest but at least aspiring for something that makes the human condition seem more spiritual in nature. More beautiful. More inspiring. There is something aesthetic about humor as well Swami. Even when it is dramatic as you enjoy presenting it. Swami is the Drama King.
Full Definition of AESTHETIC
1
a : of, relating to, or dealing with aesthetics or the beautiful <aesthetic theories>
b : artistic <a work of aesthetic value>
c : pleasing in appearance : attractive <easy-to-use keyboards, clear graphics, and other ergonomic and aesthetic features — Mark Mehler>
2
: appreciative of, responsive to, or zealous about the beautiful; also : responsive to or appreciative of what is pleasurable to the senses
