Thanks Dr. Suess,
and all who've shared here. I find it important to make ones self available to others(to give in that moment, Loving intent) in some fashion as a way to experience some depth to Love(which may be greater than we realize). What that means is probably different for every one... giving our attention to one for just a moment may be of great service. Love is gentle. It is dropping self-concern, it is selfless. Selflessness is Joy. In our sincerity to experience or be closer to God we learn the importance of Love...
Yesterdays wisdom from Hazrat Inayat Khan
~~~ True pleasure lies in the sharing of joy with another.
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Tawazu in Sufi terms means something more than hospitality. It is laying before one's friend willingly what one has, in other words sharing with one's friend all the good one has in life, and with it, enjoying life better. When this tendency to tawazu is developed, things that give one joy and pleasure become more enjoyable by sharing with another. This tendency comes from the aristocracy of the heart. It is generosity and even more than generosity. For the limit of generosity is to see another pleased in his pleasure, but to share one's own pleasure with another is greater than generosity. It is a quality which is foreign to a selfish person, and the one who shows this quality is on the path of saintliness."
from
https://wahiduddin.net/mv2/XIII/XIII_15.htm