Message #17416

[Jitendra Hydonus]

Art i have found your posts rather lengthy and infrequent. So when they do appear they require a longer period of digestion and different installments if one wants to respond. This is just an observation. Your personality lends itself to spurts and then periods of reticence.

The 'relationship' that u have discussed strikes me as one in which someone does not have the ability to express her feelings or lack of feelings for u. It would b better for this person to respond to your concerns but obviously we can not force people to respond in like manner. It has been my experience to recognize that such people are much different than I might have thought and therefore recognized that i made an error in judgement about what I thought of the person.

It is often difficult but we eventually discover the true colors of those around us. Some people become more than we thought others less. I am grateful to find some people around me have often re-entered my life and shown the enduring nature of friendship. We also may find that there r those we have met who no longer serve our 'needs' nor can we satisfy theirs. Some people r very inept at gracefully recognizing this and expressing it in a friendly manner or at least a civil manner.