...It can easily become like adding more firewood to the fire. Yet i do not believe we should try to ignore it or force ourselves to b celibate. It is just a tricky subject and often presents challenges in finding a balance.
It's very Tricky and anyone should try and find his or her own specific balance
Sexual Desire
Something more should be said here about the natural instinct of propagation which is next to the instinct of self-preservation the strongest in the animal body. Sexual desire, like all other desires, has a normal and abnormal or diseased state, the latter resulting only from the foreign matter accumulated by unnatural living as mentioned above. In sexual desire everyone has a very accurate thermometer to indicate the condition of this health. This desire is forced from its normal state by the irritation of the nerves the results from the pressure of foreign matter accumulated in the system, which pressure is exerted on the sexual apparatus and is at first manifested by an increased sexual desire followed by a gradual decrease of potency.
This sexual desire in its normal state makes man quite free from all disturbing lusts and operates on the organism (awaking a wish for a appeasement) only infrequently. Here again experiment shows that this desire, like all other desires, is always normal in individuals who lead a natural life as mentioned.
~Sri Yukteswar/The Holy Science
