Opps!!!

[Jitendra Hydonus]

Comet is that you ?     i think I must have the wrong number. Maybe it's to early in the morning... I just woke up. I feel wonderful. Dr. Kook must have cleared out my nasal passages!

 

[Jitendra Hydonus]

Ms. Comet Lettuce not squabble over small stuff. No doubt you are aware
of the predictament.

Our friend Mr. Hydonus is in denial about his issue with loneliness. He is suffering from Fantasy Overload and Sensory Deprivation. This has lead to him feeling left high and dry. I am suggesting mild stimulation to the lower extremities and shock treatment to the frontal lobes. There are many big fish in the sea. Why settle for minnows? What is your profesional opinion on this Ms. Comet?

Hi Please don't tell me what do to or say!!!  Do not read more into Steve unless you personally know him!!! Steve is a friend and a great guy!! That is my opinion!!

Cheers dear friend. ♡♥ YOU ARE VERY KIND. I would not be concerned about our kooky doctor. He's pullin' your leg.
《I am fortunate to have you as a friend Comet.》 ☆★

Steve

[Jitendra Hydonus]

I have given a lot of thought to us....we have known each other on the internet for years and years and on different sites.
Our friendship seems to just get better and better. Boundaries at this point just keep us as internet friends. We have functioned great that way. Relationships of any kind are somewhat of a gamble.

At one time I had thought seriously about moving back to the midwest. Some friends here on the forum could have
persuaded me but they are gone for now and the kindness of others has kept me in California for now. My life seems
to take me where I find I am most needed and it is most meaningful for me.

Communication is very important to me. When people stop communicating it is a fair assumption that they have lost interest.
I work non stop but I still communicate with friends. If someone communicates with me and wants to see me I make an effort
to see them. But travel is expensive. Last time I went to Michigan I spent in the thousands. Who wants to do that unless you know someone wants to see you. They show this thru action and communication.

Namaste2All has been communicating alot with me and I told him I would like to see him. I say the samething to you. It may be
awhile till we can arrange it but if you really want to see someone it probably will happen...such is the power of thought.
well I must go now...hope this all makes sense.

steve

[the 10 moods of dr. kook]

Cheers dear friend. ♡♥ YOU ARE VERY KIND. I would not be concerned about our kooky doctor. He's pullin' your leg.
《I am fortunate to have you as a friend Comet.》 ☆★

Steve

Hot tamales! I've never pulled a leg I didn't like! he he! he!

                           De Kooky Doctur

[Jitendra Hydonus]

The human garment and the human horizon
are so limited
so ever in flux and friction...

it's just that the stuff it (human garment & human horizon) is made of is very limited... and is capable of significant symbolic expression via human events and lifetime... but otherwise it's just very limited.

Sri Yukteswar said,  "Human conduct is ever unreliable until anchored in the divine."

I understand his statement, but it is not saying that the human dimension is ever fully reliable, dependable, and possible of conveying the full dimension of life...  I think the key is "anchored in divine"...

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Sometimes, we do not communicate (via typed words, or phone or such) simply because of the tide of events and responsibilities, and being a bit worn-down by all the noise of the human garment.   The garment comes in many forms, and some garments are not designed for communicating in the same manner... 

We need to consider patience with ourselves and others... 
time is a great equalizer...

blah, blah, blah...
smile, smile, smile...

(Jai Ma, Jai Guru, Jitendra !)

Nomaste2all It is very kind of you to spend time with us typing away when I realize you are on the computer all day because of your job. We all have unique spiritual paths yet I feel as though you understand my individual path better than any other friend. I suppose I have been blessed with friends from different paths to gain an expanded view of spirituality.

It has struck me as peculiar that some friends will only communicate by phone, others only on the internet and then still others by personally being with them.  It is what it is. What made it that way is a long past. I just recognize that you really can't know someone just one way alone.  It is something to be aware of in these fragmented relationships of  modern conveniences.

I see time as an element of this reality that reshapes personality. Given time we adjust our views to be more considerate and
understanding. In prison people are placed their to let them think over their presumed crimes. In a way we are all prisoners.
Prisoners of time. Time is a limitation that is always placed on us in this reality. Meditation can often give the feeling of timelessness. Timelessness and bliss are two sides of the same coin. Bliss gives the feeling of being beyond the confines of time.

Perhaps what you are saying is that we just can't really rely on others till they are anchored in the divine. It has been a
struggle Namaste2All. I really would like to understand those who vanish out of our lives. Perhaps someday I will. In the meantime it
is important to recognize those who will always be there and be grateful for them is what I want to practice. I believe this has become my favorite thread by Comet...oops! ooooooooouuufff! whhhooaaa! Ha Ha Ha Comet! and thanks for your thoughts Namaste2All. I will try to keep them in my awareness.

[Jitendra Hydonus]

Thank You for spending so much time on my posts.You also brought up the subject of boundaries.
Life is full of boundaries. From the lines on the highway to property lines to lines we
establish in relationships. What we want out of the relationship and what we do not want.
They often determine whether or not we accept a relationship with someone else or
whether they accept a relationship with us and to what extent and what kind of
relationship! 

Your welcome Steve!! Yes that is the trouble with Boundaries and why i have been starting to let my guard down a little! Sometimes we need to set them to focus on ourselves but then we also miss the best part of friendships if we do that too! I am still learning!!

This can be quite a topic in itself. We often find that are partner or friend
wants something very different than we do out of a relationship. I choose not to use
the word boundary so much as agreement. Relationships come to an agreement
of how they can function. In some relationships they are even unspoken for a long
time. They just seem to work out naturally without all the talk and negotiation.
Others require much more talk because the two involved have a different
perspective or may have even changed their outlook.

I agree!! That is why i am slowly starting to remove the boundaries!! I've had friendships that just ease their way back naturally too after long periods of times!! Things work out if it's meant to be i have accepted that!!!

Sometimes I get confused about what is stated on the forum and it is best to take people
at their face value till you learn that you can not. Often people hint at things and you may
need to have it said perfectly clear. Just some thoughts here Comet. One thing leads to another.
I thought about starting a separate subject called boundaries but than realized that your
title oooops! covers it perfectly! HaHa

I get confused at times too or read the post wrong! Hard to tell how people are feeling on the internet! LOL on the Opps!!

Its a strange thing Comet but lately I have found that the boundaries that people put up have told me so much about them
that I was fortunate that the boundaries they set were there.... I may
have otherwise been a part of their personal nite mares. The more boundaries they had--the more one dimensional their thinking. And ...the more crazy they are as a result!

For me (not that it need apply to others)-- I try being spontaneous about relationships and remain open to the unexpected. I can always set boundaries along the way if they are necessary but I wouldn't want my personal problems from the past to limit relationships in the present  because of boundaries which have no relevance to present situations. I would rather give people
the benefit of the doubt. Every situation is a new one. Just when we think we've got it figured out someone comes along to give
a new twist on things.


Jitendra