Language is so limiting sometimes. I don't remember saying I am lonely. But I am not here to deny anything someone may
pick up. I believe all human beings have something inside them that makes them feel unsatisfied and wanting more out of life.
We can feel lonely in a relationship or a crowd of people. I define it as being thrown into a world without any knowledge of
why we are here, where we came from, where we are going or how we can get out.
I never said you were lonely i was just agreeing with you!! Yes we can feel lonely in a crowd of people i been there!! I prefer to walk alone too!! I am always my own person!!
Some people just walk back an forth from an ant hill, get their food drink and sleep, socialize and say that's that. But they too will die. Is there no way to find out about this mystery we call life? This kind of loneliness is a deep longing to understand our place and purpose in the universe.
That is true!! There comes a time where we gotta walk this journey alone too we just gotta accept that and focus on ourselves!!
On a personal level I understand completely about people taking a 180 degree on us. It seems to me that if a person evolves to the point that he or she is trying to be spiritual and kind that there would be an understanding that when we abandon others
completely for long periods of time there are consequences. When someone shuns or abandons us we can look back and see
the simple equation. We at one time did it to someone else.But the obvious is not always perceived.
Who knows what is going on in their lives!! All we gotta do is just cherious the time they are with is!!!
On another level people live a very different life on the internet than being in person. I have found that people who say all kinds
of things in pm's and on forums may change quite rapidly when the inevitability of meeting in person becomes a reality.
This can change a relationship. Yet should it end relationships? I understand people go and do return Comet. Yet there is often
a very insecure feeling I have about these relationships because you never know when these people will leave your life again.
These are just observations not the end all or final outlook. I hope this added to the conversation you are having with me Comet.
Yes i know people live different lives off the internet!! I found the same type of things in people! I don't feel it should end relationships i guess it depends on the situation!! I know a lot has to do with feeling insecure! My guard is up high these days still learning who i can trust and who i can't!! I feel the same way cause i had similar situations with online friendships!!
I am sorry if I lost track of the subject.Maybe it doesn't even matter. Sometimes people just connect for a while.i am happy
for that. But when we disconnect we often wonder: Why? I really try to answer that question for others so it does not leave
them in a quandary.
No worries Steve!! Yes I agree they should at least tell us why instead of keeping us hanging that is a huge pet peeve on mine! Maybe it is one of God's UnAnswered Prayers too telling us maybe it's best we don't know!! Who knows the reason this is why i don't get too close to online friendships these days!! I made some awesome online friendships and still have them so like i said it depends on the situation and what is going on with us and them!!
