Message #13950

[Jitendra Hydonus]

Goldwolf It is nice to know you are now glowing in the dark. There are some interesting ideas i have often pondered. i have this strong feeling that males that love women inordinatley may come back as a woman. Females that have a obssession for men end up as men. This accounts for masculine type females and feminine men. It may also account for different degress of homosexuality and lesbianism. We do change sexes in our different incarnations. Perhaps we live a very masculine or feminine role for a few lifetimes. But there is something missing when the balance is not there. We are all looking for our anima and animus. We are subconsciously trying to unite the feminine and masculine characteristics of the soul so we feel the love of divine mother and the wisdom of divine father.

Yet we also see a mix of the sexes in Masters. For instance Paramahansa Yogananda had a distinctly feminine side and Amma is often masculine in her approach. So we could also look at it as a combining of the feminine and masculine traits that take place in very spiritual people who no longer divide sexuality but have combined that femine and masculine aspects into one. Strong circulating and romanticising tendencies often display an unbalanced individual who is always looking for something outside of themselves for satisfaction. Srong sexual feelings often show an abuse of sexuality in the past rather then prowess.

Sometimes it helps us by realizing we have had many incarnations and have been men and women many times.
When we begin to realize this we are not as motivated to circulating with the opposite sex (or the same sex if that is the case). We realize that it is desire, lust and often a feeling of ego fulfillment to get into this mode. However
we do have drives and we do occasionally find love. So i am not trying to belittle this behavior merely pointing out that it is not the answer to lifes problems but often presents many more. The main thing is to realize in all this seeking and romanticising we are looking for what is behind it. That is the love of God. We are all looking for love.
We are all looking for happiness. The question is: Does all this going after relationships with others help us find happiness? Just some thoughts that have come to me thru out the years. i hope they are welcome thoughts and not alien to you.

Well now we have several people on the pOrtal from Wisconsin. It might be the place to visit!
i certainly hope to see you if you come to California!