Insecure people, on the other hand, need to have someone out there, somewhere in their lives, that they haven't let go of.
Also learn to let go. Relationships come and go, we're human and they don't always work. Often, they never work. All things pass.
If you have unprocessed relationships, it's because you're still plugged in, or connected to someone, and they are not connected to you. They have hurt you, so there's a Karma there, but the Karma is always with yourself. It's not with the world. The Karma center is inside you. The only way you can make a peace with that person that hurt you, is to make a piece with yourself. When you do that it's clear, it's that simple.
http://www.radioastrology.com/TFG/KarmaRel.htmDisclaimer: I don't know if this person is phony or notSpiritImage
Your article by someone else reads a bit like a treatise. Not that i do not find it interesting. Often people have long videos or things to read by others that require lots of time; which i do not have. But i am interested in your ideas. Perhaps it is because i believe we share some similar karma. But i would not classify it as bad karma.
First of all you use the word unprocessed related to relationships. i usually think of that word associated with food-not relationships. i can understand that we need to work on ourselves. That has always been the number one goal of spirituality. However karma does involve other people and our time spent with them. i do not believe you can isolate karma and say it does not involve those we have relationships with. Also many of us have many long term relationships not just one or two. i doubt that many people feel really secure about who they are. It may even be a danger since being secure may be associated with ego and feeling we know it all. Most of us have a long way to go to find that security that makes us know what our divine role is and how we are able to act on it at all times. That is why we are here: to learn about it.
We have been working on relationships for life times. Many of these relationships are beneficial so the karma involved is one of merit. There is no need to 'let them go' since the relationship is a benefit to both of them. Many relationships do work and those that do not often need work. Some people give up easily others recognize that if they do not work on the relationships they have and continue to jump to new ones they will have similar problems with relationships they begin that are new. i am not sure that i understand your point Jeff. But i do believe you are trying to say something. So i have taken the time to respond.
To totally forget someone we have spent a lot of time with is heartless. Since we are using the word processed here I will use another similar one. It is recycled. Some people recycle relationships like tin cans. But people are actually souls not processed or unprocessed foods. This is where we create karma if we are not careful to do things with love and act towards others in like manner. Certainly it is much easier to let go of people who treat us bad yet we cannot always be sure of the reasoning and motives of everyone. It may take quite awhile to see clearly through such situations in our lives.
Someone may have been kind at one time but later turn mean on us. This behavior shows a lack of spiritual development which for me is the easiest sign to let such people go. Life and people are not so simple that we can think we know them and can just write them off. It often takes much understanding on our part and through that process much wisdom is gained.
