There is a difference between sexual intercourse and Spiritualizing the Creative Force.
I am learning myself the very individualized ways of this energy. There are ways to deal with, and explore the persistent prod, and use this energy in ways I never thought possible. Even Kriya technique of moving the energy starting from the lowest chakra, seems to be dealing with this energy, although no guru or avatar plainly says so.
Celibacy and suppression is not the answer for me. And neither is external fluid release. Too much energy wasted and the older you get the worse that is for you, IMO. Simply thinking about something else, cold water, etc., is suppression. It is stated to avoid sex, no overindulging, etc., But to me it must be dealt with and experienced so that you can learn. Taoism does have some plain spoken insight. Just like Kriya, it takes practice, study, and figuring out what works for you.
Jeff; Although i realize it is somewhat difficult to lay out a formula for sexual redirection into higher channels; i appreciate your insights.
i must say that for me, in life, sexual energy has proven to be one of the most helpful ways of understanding human relationships and to express feelings and human emotions. In this sense i am yet unable to find it detrimental to spiritual evolution.