If someone seriously wants to be a part of your life they will seriously make an effort to be in it. NO reasons NO excuses. 
to me... when it seems that others do not make a serious attempt to b in our lives
we continue to create our own destiny. We cannot wait for others. Life goes on and besides if we wait for others we often find they have made other plans anyhow. i do not
think that many people understand how much we care about them and they adjust,
like puppets, to their present environment not realizing they have the power to change it if they really wanted to. If nothing else i have proved this in my own life. But only thru grace is do these things occur..
When communication slows down, with other people, i see it as a sign to go on with our lives and to continue creating our own life and destiny. If any of u want to come out to California let me know and i will b your guide. There is a lot to do and see out here! Many spiritual places to go and spiritual people to see and so much beautiful nature!
The mountains, the redwoods, the desert and the ocean!
Jitendra