what i would suggest to do.....is have your girlfriend and family too, if they are accepting of this, talk to the friend who passed....tell the friend they know she/he is fine....and they will meet again sometime. Smiley
thank you anne, i was able to recommend your suggestion and it seemed to help in the letting go of things
just remember to seek
with focused Will
upon the Spiritual Horizon...
cultivate Love and Yearning for Divine Gentle Resonate Heart -- the one found in Stillness...
and Relax and Let Go of trying to understand or detective it from time to time....
simply trust the unfolding,
what you sense it might be,
never read too much or too little...
reach the place of 'one hand clapping' -- of 'the sound of the un-struck bell'...
Om Namah Eric and radiant light
hey Namaste2All
thank you