Message #11814

[guest88]

i dont have the answers. instead i share opinion in hopes we figure things out together. but. what makes it stagnant and why is it upsetting you ? is it because you expect more out of the relationship ? you want something that's not being acknowledged ? or . . . ? in my recent past i deleted many contacts from my phone. i miss some of my very good friends because of it. in the end we should be grateful for all we share(whether that is with new or old friends, strangers even). if nothing is happening why dwell on it ? if you are their friend, will you still be there when they wish to come to you ? sometimes it's upsetting because perhaps the type of friendship we thought we shared is misunderstood. i think it's best to keep yourself moving, be true to yourself. don't be afraid to communicate the aspects of a relatioship you miss sharing. if some of these friends were once attracted and are now repelled, then yes move on. but that doesn't mean you are no longer friends. it means you don't need this to hold you down.