although that is an administrator ability, are you saying you don't see send personal message?
i've attached an image of what happens when i click your name
disregard the red lines going through i was lazily marking one by one and realized it unnecessary(if i was trying to hide something i would have done a better job lol)
Profile Info
Summary
Show Stats
Show Posts
Track User
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Show Permissions
Modify Profile
Account Related Settings
Forum Profile Information
Look and Layout Preferences
Notifications and Email
Personal Message Options
Edit Buddies
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Delete this account
This what happens when i press my name
This is what happens when i press your name:
Summary
Show Stats
Show Posts
Track User
Track IP
Show Permissions
Modify Profile
Account Related Settings
Forum Profile Information
Look and Layout Preferences
Notifications and Email
Personal Message Options
Upgrade Forum
Actions
Send personal message
Delete this account
Conclusion: Not too many people send personal messages to themselves. Darn
