El Barto it is a strange thing this attachment we often feel towards others. We are taught some heavy lessons thru them and usually end up trying to find the same love from God i think a lot of it originates from the fact that we know there is something beautiful and perfect but we some how project in on another human instead of the love behind it that comes from God. So the best method i have found is to keep practicing the presence thanking God that you are able to see that perfection in someone else.
However we can always be grateful for the fact that we are in touch with this higher reality that we see in others. It is often difficult though when Ego clouds the true manifestation of soul qualities.
so true thank you! feels like theres so much to practice now
and yet never always conscious of my desires for deeper fulfillment