Message #44118

[Jitendra Hydonus]

Thanks Eric your last post is thought provoking. Not sure how to respond or whether a response is necessary. It does incite reflection. The main thing I got out of it was; how do we respond to other people and their responses to us, or for that matter their lack of response to us? Sometimes we are not certain what the best response is. A simple illustration here:

My roommate always throws out things, and sometimes they are important. For instance I laid out a toll charge I got in the mail today so I could remember to pay it. An added $25 would be demanded for a late fee next time the bill was mailed. I spent nearly a half an hour trying to find it,  i was unsuccessful. I finally looked in the garbage and found it mixed with oil and grease. I have discussed my roommates throwing things out before, that are important. What if any should be my response to this?