ok lets do one thing at a time...
what/who is god? what do you believe?
Aiming to hit a home run as soon as you step to bat. The million dollar question with regards to a religious and spiritual person. Who is God. I do not like topics such as this, as well as topics such as love. When you define them you are creating labels of what you think they are. It then creates a limited scope of what they truly are. Those that came the closest were the Hindu's and their belief of brahman, and the Tao. The rest of the religions have failed when it comes to coming close to God. Christianity/Islam/Etc teach of a human God that gets angry at mistakes, and punishes you for those mistakes.
Hinduism talks about God/Brahman being all their is, and is in all. With this knowledge you will then understand that God/Brahman is everything and nothing. Good and Bad. So to punish the bad would be then to punish the good.
Christianity was given the same belief in the I AM, yet they miss understood the truth that was put in front of them. Brahman/Tao/and I AM are all the same thing. They are the presence that is everything and nothing.