Celebrate Your Failures

[Jitendra Hy-do-u-no-us?]

English subtitles.

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Thanks Steve! So much wisdom. Not even sure where to start! I have recognized failures in relationships. Sometimes I don't have to do anything for the person to feel as if I've wronged them, and am told they are washing their hands of me or can't stay in communication. My partner says I am not responsible for their happiness or misfortune. That we are only responsible for ourselves. As long as we are trying, even in separation, we can have faith it is all in accordance to the divine plan. We are connected, and being ourselves will mean affecting the matrix with both negative and positive influence. This might be another topic, but I wonder what Amma would say about failing friendships, and how we might be able to celebrate them?

Another point she brought up was again the example of the snake and rope. Last night in the astral my imagination mistook someone for something it wasn't, and my fear was reflected back to me in this realm. Had I pursued that fear with the flashlight of inquiry and a calm mind perhaps I could have transcend the experience and have learned the true nature of whatever entity I was experiencing with- even if it is only my self.