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« on: Feb 21, 2013 06:15 pm »

i have been contemplating: what keeps people bond together for the long lasting relationships? i have seen so many people enter and leave my life. Yet some have continued to be there throughout my life and perhaps many lives. Common interests
and attractions do bring people together for a time. i think that people find that even these qualites last for a while or change depending on age, attraction interests etc. Circumstances really play a role in the outcome of relationships. However the one thing that  bonds people together for lifetimes is spirituality.

It is recognizing certain spiritual qualities in others and developing those qualites together. Many times we find that people do not live up to our expectations or we do not live up to our own ideals but if we continue to focus on the spiritual qualites that manifest in others we can maintain relationships for long periods, if not forever.

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« Reply #1 on: Feb 23, 2013 02:16 am »

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"""Many times we find that people do not live up to our expectations or we do not live up to our own ideals.."""

expect nothing from everyone.

if ya keep doing what it is you are doing...expectations/ideals....u may keep finding yourself disappointed.  alone.



Hello Yoshi this was the actual quote:

It is recognizing certain spiritual qualities in others and developing those qualites together. Many times we find that people do not live up to our expectations or we do not live up to our own ideals but if we continue to focus on the spiritual qualites that manifest in others we can maintain relationships for long periods, if not forever.

Jitendra

You can see i used the word 'we'. But i have noticed that people have had expectations of me and perhaps 'I' have not lived up to those expectations. There is also the phenomena of looking at me thru the eyes of the past which now is nomore.  If we  continue to focus on maintaining spiritual qualities these type of relationships will endure. Many of us have gone thru so many relationships. Should this be an example of what we want? So i am not sure that i understand what you are trying to say here. Perhaps you could elaborate.

i think that the feeling of being 'alone' can just as easily take place in a relationship as outside of one. People are still unsatisfied and are not finding what they are looking for. For me and many, it is not the question of aloness but rather the quality of relationship we enter.  It seems to me that 'we' can satisfy the needs of relationships much better by establishing and having similar spiritual goals. Not expecting u to agree it is my own experience. 

Some people constantly look for new excitement and think that just over the hill the grass is greener. Yet i am ok going
solitare or having a relationship. i  am ok with myself. My happiness does not depend on someone else or constantly looking for where the grass is greener. It can find you chasing in circles, dizzy, disconnected without purpose and without God.

There was a time that there were walls of many images of the past. We saw those walls. We saw the images and we decided how to play them out. i had to burn the walls and it was painful to see those walls within me burn down. But i found a new freedom from looking at things different. So could it be that u did not understand what i was saying because i may not be in the same place that you once saw me?

P.S. Sorry about messing up your entry while quoting you but  it is still intact, in blue above.

Jitendra
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