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Passing blame and reacting to the perceived behavior of others is a phenomenon known has projection. Sometimes we can see it around us as others blame us for their own misfortunes and inadequacy. It displays itself as blaming circumstances instead of looking at ourselves as the cause of such circumstances.

We can also and should also evaluate how we ourselves project our own liabilities on others and on circumstances rather than seeing how we are the cause of the reality we have created.

There are three general types of psychological projection:

Neurotic Projection is the most common type of projection where someone attributes feelings, motives, desires, and attitudes they deem unacceptable. This type most closely meets the definition of psychological projection.
Complementary Projection occurs when an individual believes that everyone else shares the same opinions and thoughts he or she does. For example, a woman is concerned about climate change, but she is shocked when she realizes not everyone feels the same way.
Complimentary Projection occurs when someone assumes that other people possess the same skills they do. For example, a talented cook may think everyone should make the same dishes to play with ease.
Projection does not always have negative effects. Complementary projection gives people a sense of mutuality and helps them relate to others more easily.

It can also be used to connect with people that they want to identify with. An example of this would be attempting to attach yourself to success by projecting onto someone rich and powerful, which often results in the over-idealization of that person.

Because projection occurs on an unconscious level, it is often subtle and therefore not easily identifiable.

Sigmund Freud And Psychological Projection

The psychological projection was first conceptualized by the Austrian neurologist and “father of psychoanalysis,” Sigmund Freud. It was later refined further by his daughter Anna Freud and Karl Abraham.

Freud found that some of his patients would accuse others of behaviors evident in themselves during his sessions. He noticed that his patients were able to deal with their emotions better by acting in this manner.

He believed that if individuals couldn’t accept their thoughts, emotions, desires, and feelings (whether negative or positive), they would be unconsciously placed outside of themselves onto someone else. It was a way of rejecting uncomfortable feelings and impulses that may be jealous, angry, or sexual.

Why Do We Project?



Like all other defense mechanisms, projection is a coping technique employed by the fragile ego to protect itself from distressing thoughts and emotions difficult to accept or express. People engage in projection regularly, whether consciously or not, particularly when they feel attacked during heated arguments and discussions.

People tend to be more comfortable pointing out the negative parts of others rather than confront them in themselves. At the same time, the human ego wants to believe in and preserve its positive self-image and dignity at all costs. When this is threatened, a person subconsciously goes on the defensive and externalizes negative emotions, so they do not have to deal with it. In this way, the danger is seemingly diverted.

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Looking back on life, I think I spent a lot of time on projecting my ideals on others. Later in life I’ve attempted more and more to develop the qualities I’ve looked for in others.