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Title: Holding Grudges Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Jul 19, 2014 04:18 pm Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. But we can only communicate if people are willing. Once some one closes a door in your face it is usually because there is another door in front of you that brings a new life with someone or something more suitable for your highest aspirations.
Title: Re: Holding Grudges Post by: kingfisher111 on Jul 24, 2014 02:35 am The mountain stream goes down one direction until it reaches a barrier, then the water splashes, then the stream overflows and soon finds a new path to allow it to flow further down the mountain.
Title: Re: Holding Grudges Post by: Jitendra Hydonus on Jul 24, 2014 04:54 am The mountain stream goes down one direction until it reaches a barrier, then the water splashes, then the stream overflows and soon finds a new path to allow it to flow further down the mountain. Your metaphor has me smiling. i guess we started being friends because we both had similar experiences in that sense two streams with obstacles converged. For that i am very fortunate. Real frienship sometimes is not quite how we expect it to develop. i think we have to be receptive to what life gives and not what we want to get. This has been my experience. We do not always know what is best for us. But when we are guided by hidden forces that are helping us we find it is not us that is directing our lives but rather God's grace showing us what is best for us. Jitendra |